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5 Moments That Define a Man

Posted on 21 July 2008 by admin

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Being a kid is a blast. Unfortunately, we grow up, and things change. Our actions in everyday situations become more difficult, and ultimately define our character. For my male readers, how will you handle these 5 moments that define a man?

#1 - Choosing to Marry

This moment comes long before you pop the question. Ask yourself not whether you'll still want to sleep with her in 20 years (you will), but how you'll react when you discover what foul brand of sugar and spice she's truly made of. A promising answer: "We're still a pretty good team."

#2 - Becoming a Father

There are tons of fatherhood variables, but we do know one simple truth: The only times you'll suck at being a dad are the moments you refuse to put your kids' needs first. If you're ready to prioritize them consistently, you'll cruise.

#3 - Receiving Your First Real Defeat

We don't mean losing to Springfield during your sophomore year. The adult defeats - job losses, divorces, family estrangements - are the ones that cut deep into the ego, because they spotlight failure of temper, character, and adaptability. Are you able to limp to your feet, spit the turf out of your mouth, and smile with your two front teeth missing? You'd better be. People rally around that guy.

#4 - Becoming an Orphan

The day both your mom and pop are officially planted is a defining one. No more training. No more advice. No more free meals on Thanksgiving Day. It's your turn to be the example at the head of the table. You don't have to wear a cardigan when you carve the turkey, but you do have to take up the knife. Don't cut yourself.

#5 - Realizing You Don't Know Everything

The younger you are when you experience this moment of clarity, the better. It means you'll be humbler in the face of knowledge - that's a good thing. It also means you'll have more years to quest, to learn, to figure out everything from options trading to tying a tighter fly. You ain't stupid, sir. But you ain't God, either.

Source: Men's Health, June 2006

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  • Nick
    http://www.stumbleupon.com/stu...

    Oh yeah, I definitely realized #5 and it was one of the best things to ever happen to me. When you realize that you aren't perfect, you accept that you have room to go. Gives you something to work towards, always bettering you. Excellent post.
  • Jonathan
    Actualy i find it correct
    i dont know if the list is full
    but yes couldnt agree more
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  • sex_toys
    It's a nice list, but a little bit sad. It's very hard to realize that one day you'll become an orphan, or that one day looking at your wife you'll think that you are "still a match". I wanna be young and romantic all the time! Is it possible?
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  • chrisshouse
    Wow as a women I would not have thought of some of these things.
  • Steve
    Great post. I've covered 3 of the 5 so far.
  • chrisshouse
    which 3 LOL?
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